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I would like to know whether it is possible to replace connector for digitizer cable no. 3

You CAN replace the connector on the board, it isnt impossible. It isnt related to the digitizer though, this is for the ear speaker and proximity sensor. the ribbon replacement isnt going to be detailed in that link. If you want to replace the ribbon, look here: iPhone 3GS Proximity Sensor Ribbon Replacement There is no detailed guide to replace the #3 connector because the tools required are quite specialized. You asked about #7 as well? The title of the question and the content is a bit confusing.

If you want to change the ribbon try here: [linked product missing or disabled: IF142-003-1] But the locking mechanism (FPC tab) on the board I don’t believe you can change out just go fresh and keep steady, number 3 was a pain for me too

http://fonefixer.webs.com/apps/webstore/… is the fix for the number 7 connector and missing inductor.